Family is everything to me. We have been through much transition and become stronger all of the time. Not every family is as blessed as we are and one of my commitments is to help families become closer even amidst the day-to-day pressures in life.
With the law of attraction, you will find that you can do anything.
When I was in my 20s I had a young child and was also at the beginning of building my career. When I found my work related passion, healthcare administration, I made a decision that my career would blossom and I would also be first and foremost “mom” to my little girl. At that time telecommuting and other work at home opportunities were unheard of. Because of my level of commitment and knowledge of Law of Attraction, my career progressed at a rapid pace and I never missed a morning assembly or afternoon meeting with a teacher.
With the Law of Attraction, you can do anything that you desire to do. You can work the family aspect, you can work on yourself, you can work on the career or business, but you can also work on anything that you would like to do.
You will want to work on yourself and work on ways that you can bring yourself closer to feeling complete and experiencing happiness.
To get started you will want to identify what it is that you want. What are the deepest desires of your heart? If it is a closer family you will want to first be more specific. You will find that there is a lot of things can be worked on when it comes to the family, but you have to get specific. You will need to think about what part of the family relationship that you need to work on and what it will take for you to bring the family closer.
The second part of Law of Attraction is to learn how to let go of the negative energy and replace it with positive energy. In some families this can be a challenge.
Law of Attraction can be used to improve all types of relationships including family and the other person or people do not even need to know about your focus on Law of Attraction. If you choose to not talk about Law of Attraction when you first focus on it,you may choose to tell the others about it once the improvements have been noticed them. This is a wonderful opportunity to share this Law and help others improve their lives as well.
One of the most important things to express in our family and other relationships is gratitude.
Gratitude is essential to using the Law of Attraction. With the Law of Attraction, like attracts like. So what you think and believe truly creates your world. By thinking and acting positively you will see huge shifts in the circumstances of your life!
To start become thankful for the person in your life with whom you have some type of conflict. See this person in your mind’s eye throughout the day. Think about positive experiences you have had together. If it is someone new to you envision spending quality time together in the future. In your mind tell the other person something you like and appreciate about them and envision them telling you the same thing.
Family relationships can at times be challenging. Sometimes the relationship can feel one-sided. To use the Law of Attraction remember that the way you see others in a reflection of how you see yourself. So if you don’t like what you see — you need to help change the picture. Initially this may not make sense to you. You know that they are clearly wrong or are not giving to the relationship all that you are.
Could you see yourself stepping forward, giving a call and inviting the other out for coffee? This simple act can change the relationship and change your life! Just by your thoughts the relationship will change. If the other person accepts the invitation and you have a wonderful talk that is great. Even if they don’t, your life will change!
Remind yourself each day that you have a loving family and that your relationships are peaceful and respectful.
Those reminders or affirmations are positive statements used to help change your beliefs. By saying these affirmations several times a day, you can truly change your thinking and thus change your life. If you are truly in a conflict you may be resistant to this idea because it will feel like you are not speaking the truth. How can you say that “Mary and I have a loving and wonderful relationship.” when you haven’t spoken to Mary in 2 years and maybe cannot even remember what the conflict was about? If you are committed to using this process and reestablishing your relationship with Mary you can say “I am in the process of reconnecting with Mary and the result will be a wonderful, supportive relationship.”. Just by that statement you have gotten the ball rolling and are speaking the truth.
Create affirmations that are ideal and personal for your circumstances. So if your relationship with Mary is the challenge you face, create an affirmation about how much you and Mary love each other. Say it at least three times a day. You can even use this as a screen saver or set alarms to remind you to say it.
The Law of Attraction has the ability to improve and change your family and all relationships.
I have used affirmations that I have written and said to myself many times per day very successfully. When I wanted to “supercharge my success” I began looking for a program that would allow the affirmations to take hold in my subconscious and truly become a part of me.
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